Everyone deserves a person that can make them forget they were ever broken, someone’s whose interest is obvious, someone who gives clarity and not confusion, no deciphering, no mixed signals or reading between the lines.

One day you will meet that person, the incredible human being who will treat you with so much respect and love that you won’t know what to do with it. You cant make people feel for you the way you feel for them. Just accept the truth when nothing is working out.

One day a beautiful person with soft eyes will gaze at you steadily and you will forget all the reasons why you were scared to trust again. You will forget the hurt, the anxiety and the confusion that love has caused you in the past and you will just trust this process. You will realise that, someone can enter your life at the most unexpected time and despite telling yourself that you wont let love in again, you will welcome it with open arms. You will learn that some people are good for your heart and gentle for your soul.

Some people delve into your life with an infectious laughter and bring with them the kind of sunlight that you will never want to loose. One day, you will meet a kind soul who might not know so much about love or feelings but they will know a lot about being tender and patient with those that they care about and it will be these traits that you will fall for. It will be their warn soul, a warmth that they don’t even realise they have that you will fall for. One day you will come across this person and everything will finally fall into place.

When I met you, you were just another face to me. But now you are the only face I could ever find in a crowded place.

Don’t let anyone deceive you into a rushed marriage. Marriage only works when two complete people come together with the same energy to build a home and still manage to complement each other. Is full of sacrifices, full of trials. Full of unnecessary annoyance and pain but at the end you have each other.

At the end of the day is not about the sex, though necessary, the best part of the relation is about being able to to talk for hours about the stupid part of your day for it is not WHAT you have in your life that matter, but WHO you have.

30+ and COMPLETE

The pain of marrying the wrong person is worse than your present state and fear of not being married before or at 30 because for me, real love is not based on romance. In fact, it’s based on care, compromise, respect, trust and a stroke of good luck……..not everyone wins.

Once you learn to love and enjoy your own company, you’re already halfway there. We must be our own before we can be another’s. Real love stories never have endings. Men always want to be a woman’s first love. Women like to be a man’s last romance. There are no winners.

I hope you find someone who understands your love language. Someone who reciprocates your feelings and efforts. Someone who pushes you mentally and spiritually. But most importantly I hope you find all of these in yourself first so that you can be ready for this type of love.

So for now … “If you’re searching for that one person who will change your life, look in the mirror.” Find yourself, enjoy yourself, pray for the right soul mate but most importantly know and feel complete.

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