PART I
Some weeks ago, a good Christian friend complained about the erotic nature of my write ups. How I am drawing people to sin etc. via the intensive descriptive nature of the write ups. He advised it is best I rather write about salvation and draw people to Christ……..which I also do sometimes.
Sincerely I understood where he was coming from but at that point, I realized I was not achieving my aim for the write up and people were not paying attention to the subtle advice and the education I was giving them but rather concentrating on others I don’t want to think about. but then again, I got worried on how we Christians view SEX/LOVEMAKING
It’s socially acceptable to spend a day watching sports or sitcoms, but it’s shameful and embarrassing to admit to same about erotic media. Why is it that sex is so often deemed “inappropriate” and considered something we must keep private or even ignore? We can all here admit that sexual satisfaction is something that most ladies lack. We can also admit that most ladies don’t even know how it feels to have an orgasm, yet their partners are not aware. Our culture is afraid of sex. We feel the need to label what is normal and what isn’t, and as a result, we live in a relational and sexually unhealthy culture. In reality, far more harm is caused by labeling sexual expression as “obscene” than by celebrating it.
My write ups explore and challenges the negative ideals that have warped society’s view of sex. I tend to educate people on the fantasies that both women and men have. I educate on how to give proper sex to your partner and not just penetrate and cum but to give pure and holy pleasure. I go into details so that it ticks you if you are NOT doing the right things, the men especially as the female anatomy is something that is very hard to please.
My page, www.everything-me is not a dogmatic rule book or page or site but a valuable guide to help you on your journey to sexual self-discovery and, most important, self-acceptance. I want to encourage you to not only explore your capacity for pleasure, but to be proud of it and to take a look at how you could be living.
Aside for pleasure, sex should be viewed as exploration. An exploration of the greatest work of art to ever exist – the human body. Exploring the curves and contours of the body so as to further appreciate the magnificence of such a creation. There is a pandemic of disaffection and coldness, I seek to melt that ice and cut the path that leads everyone to finding true love and true affection. This doesn’t just help the couple involved in this, but it also helps children. When they see the pure love and affection mommy and daddy share, it releases positive hormones from their brain and helps them grow. Healthy children also come out of homes with positive sexual energy.
If you study the trends of my write ups, most sex and intimacy happen between married couples, those who had it outside marriage – it quite didn’t end well with them, so let’s read with open minds.
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Kelvin
That’s an awesome 👏🏽 explainer. The dreads of Songs of Solomon is even more dangerous but it is a holy book. They fail to learn about sexual fantasies and become a burden on pastors with their marital issues
Judy Agbeli
hahahahha.its just a pity when people think learning and practicals is the same. know your partners fantasies
Nana Ama
Interesting read . Good love making is very important
Judy Agbeli
very very important
Rev. Dr. Elijah Ireneus Kwame Bununya
It is very true. It is time we have an open attitude towards sexuality in our culture even in the church.
Most Christian marriages are suffering and I think you are doing a very good job in that aspect. God Bless you for me wai and keep it up.
Judy Agbeli
Thanks so much.
Abigail
Well said