My silence means I am tired of fighting and now there is nothing left to fight for.

My silence means I am tired of explaining my feelings to you, but now I don’t have the energy to explain them anymore.

My silence means I have adapted to the changes in my life and I don’t want to complain.

My silence means I am on a self healing process and I am trying to forget everything I ever wanted from you.

My silence means I am just trying to move on gracefully with all my dignity.

Don’t break a bird’s wings and then tell it to fly.

Don’t break a heart and then tell it to love.

Don’t break a soul and then tell it to be happy.

Don’t see the worst in a person and expect them to see the best in you.

Don’t judge people and expect them to stand by your side.

Don’t play with fire and expect to stay perfectly safe.

Don’t expect God to forgive you if you don’t know how to forgive others

Life is about giving and taking. You cannot expect to give bad and receive good.

You cannot expect to give good and receive bad though in this world of wicked people this Can happen and it happens so often.

I was so afraid of losing you…..until I realized you never really belonged to me in the first place. Because even though my heart was with you, yours was with everything and everyone else. So instead of being afraid to lose you, I sat back and
watched YOU lose me.

Don’t let anyone guilt trip you for not having waited around for them to change their shitty
ass, problematic behavior and get their shit together. You don’t owe anyone years of your life in exchange for the decline of your mental and emotional health.

#Ashawo season, we don’t have time. *just for laughs*