Singleness is not a horrible “state” to be in contrary to what society makes it out to be. When you know your worth, you will realize that you deserve so much better, and you will wait until the right one comes along to treat you as somebody valuable.

If you’re not being treated the way you’re supposed to be treated (e.g., with love, kindness, patience, respect), then check your price tag. You’ve marked yourself down. It’s you who tells people what you’re worth and how to treat you by what you accept. Get off the clearance rack and get behind the glass where all the valuables are kept. That is where you belong.

You’re rare, so people are gonna fall in love with the idea of having you, but most of them aren’t used to rare, they’re foreign to it, so they’ll lack the capacity to treat you as such.
And that’s where they lose you.

Never let a person get comfortable disrespecting you. The more chances you give that person, the less respect they’ll start to have for you. They’ll begin to ignore the boundaries and standards you’ve set for them because they know another chance will be given. They won’t even be afraid to lose you because they know that no matter what, you won’t walk away. Don’t ever tolerate disrespect. You are worth way more than that.

This goes beyond romantic partners.
This goes for family members, Friends, Coworkers, Bosses, Supervisors, Church members, Pastors etc. Whomever is in your life, this goes for them. If you know what God says about you, then you will know that disrespect is never to be tolerated. If it’s hard for you to walk away, ask God and believe it when I say that He will show up on your behalf and give you enough strength to distance yourself from that person who doesn’t see what God sees in you.
You are worth it. You are valued. And most importantly, you are priceless.

Gone are the days that I expected a man to love me endlessly, to share in my every dream. Life is too short to entirely entrust your love into another person’s hands.
My desires in a relationship have changed over time as I no longer want anyone who promises to never leave me. Rather, I need someone who understands life happens and sometimes things don’t work out the way it is supposed to. I don’t want someone who sugarcoats things and never gets angry or coils up when things get heated up.
I need someone to tell me how it really is and put me in my place. I need someone who will correct me and voice out their feelings no matter how much pain that might cause. I need someone who is willing to listen to me too and not think I am nagging. Someone who understands that we are all different and need to accommodate each other and not change each other.
Someone who will appreciate my every effort, my sacrifices and not normalize it over time.
I want love, passion, honesty, and companionship…… sex that drives me crazy and conversation that drives me sane.

I need to go five hours without talking to you and not feel lost or incomplete because I am complete without you but with you, I want to be much better. I want to blossom.
I want to be stronger with you. I want us to grow together and also help each grow individually.
I don’t need you but I really fucken want you.
And though this may not work out, just the fact that you understand all of this, willing to still be with me knowing this is how some relationship works makes me think we got a pretty good shot at this.

Staying single is so much better than being half loved, manipulated, deceived, lied to, and being taken advantage of!.

Marriage is a journey…………choose wisely